This is the first time that I have blogged but I can’t think of a better time to express my feelings and love to all those who read this. We have been on a roller coaster the last few days. We were blessed to bring one of our Heavenly Fathers children into the world. He was born at 4:07 AM on June 19th. He was 5 lbs 13 oz. and 19.5 in long. He was a beautiful guy. He retuned to his Father in Heaven the same day. We have felt the Lords hand in our live. His tender mercies have continued during this experience. I am grateful for the blessings of the gospel and know that life is eternal where we will one day be able to be with our son again. We have found great joy in a talk by Elder Scott. Here is the link and we encourage all to read it.
http://www.lds.org/ldsorg/v/index.jsp?vgnextoid=2354fccf2b7db010VgnVCM1000004d82620aRCRD&locale=0&sourceId=515a230bac7f0210VgnVCM100000176f620a____&hideNav=1
Here is an excerpt that has brought us much strength:
"Now I would like to speak of the special meaning the temple has for me. Part of this message is going to be sensitive, so I will appreciate your prayers as I give it so that I do not become too emotional.
Fourteen years ago the Lord took my wife beyond the veil. I love her with all my heart, but I have never complained because I know it was His will. I have never asked why but rather what is it that He wants me to learn from this experience. I believe that is a good way to face the unpleasant things in our lives, not complaining but thanking the Lord for the trust He places in us when He gives us the opportunity to overcome difficulties.
We had the blessing of having children. A daughter, the first child, continues to be an enormous blessing in our lives. A couple of years later a son we named Richard was born. A few years later a daughter was born. She died after living only a few minutes.
Our son, Richard, was born with a heart defect. We were told that unless that could be cured, there was little probability that he would live more than two or three years. This was so long ago that techniques now used to repair such defects were unknown. We had the blessing of having a place where doctors agreed to attempt to perform the needed surgery. The surgery had to be done while his little heart was beating.
The surgery was performed just six weeks after the birth and death of our baby daughter. When the operation finished, the principal surgeon came in and said it was a success. And we thought, “How wonderful! Our son will have a strong body, be able to run and walk and grow!” We expressed deep gratitude to the Lord. Then about 10 minutes later, the same doctor came in with an ashen face and told us, “Your son has died.” Apparently the shock of the operation was more than his little body could endure.
Later, during the night, I embraced my wife and said to her, “We do not need to worry, because our children were born in the covenant. We have the assurance that we will have them with us in the future. Now we have a reason to live extremely well. We have a son and a daughter who have qualified to go to the celestial kingdom because they died before the age of eight.” That knowledge has given us great comfort. We rejoice in the knowledge that all seven of our children are sealed to us for time and all eternity.
That trial has not been a problem for either of us because, when we live righteously and have received the ordinances of the temple, everything else is in the hands of the Lord. We can do the best we can, but the final outcome is up to Him. We should never complain, when we are living worthily, about what happens in our lives.
Fourteen years ago the Lord decided it was not necessary for my wife to live any longer on the earth, and He took her to the other side of the veil. I confess that there are times when it is difficult not to be able to turn and talk to her, but I do not complain. The Lord has allowed me, at important moments in my life, to feel her influence through the veil.
What I am trying to teach is that when we keep the temple covenants we have made and when we live righteously in order to maintain the blessings promised by those ordinances, then come what may, we have no reason to worry or to feel despondent.
I know that I will have the privilege of being with that beautiful wife, whom I love with all my heart, and with those children who are with her on the other side of the veil because of the ordinances that are performed in the temple. What a blessing to have once again on the earth the sealing authority, not only for this mortal life but for the eternities. I am grateful that the Lord has restored His gospel in its fullness, including the ordinances that are required for us to be happy in the world and to live everlastingly happy lives in the hereafter."
We are thankful for all of your prayers and will continue to need them in the coming days. Thank you for your love and we love you all.
Nathan and Rachael
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19 comments:
What a comforting and peaceful talk by Elder Scott. Thanks for sharing. We love you both and you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Oh Rachael... I heard the difficult news. I'm sure there is nothing I can say that can take the pain away. My heart has been aching for you and your sweet family and I have been thinking of you much. We have kept you in our prayers. I have tears in my eyes as I read your post - what a strong, faithful girl you are! Try to keep your chin up through this trial... you will see that beautiful boy of yours again one day soon in a glorious place! What a happy day that will be. He'll be watching over you through the years I'm sure... We love you.
Nate and Rachael thank you so much for your example of strength and enduring faith. You are an amazing couple and truly emulate Christlike attributes. We love you and cherish your friendship.
Nate and Rachel, you guys have been in our prayers. Like some of the posts above, you have definitely been in our thoughts. It is inspiring to see how strong you guys are in difficult times. May the Lord Bless you with the blessings of heaven.
Your friends
Casey and Rachel
Your post comforts me as I grieve for your family...please know that you and Rachael are in our prayers each day. I will keep Elder Scott's talk close by as his words are truly inspired to help ease all of our pains and sorrows.
Rachael and Nathan,
What a beautiful tribute to your sweet little boy! All he desires right now is for his mommy and daddy to be happy and know that he is okay and looks forward to being with them soon. Time seems so big to us now but as it passes we realize how quickly it is gone. When you hold him again it will feel like yesterday when he was so soft, tiny, and adorable as he lay in your arms. Hold onto each other as you hold onto your faith, and the sure knowledge of a loving Heavenly Father who will turn all our sorrows into joy!
I can't wait to share your joy when we meet this special little boy one great and glorious day! Until then, you are in our families prayers always.
With all our love,
Tom and JoAnn
Nate and Rachel-- I just found your blog and am so grateful I did. Sorry to hear about your loss. You will be in my prayers. Thanks for sharing.
Nate and Rachael- I am so sorry to hear about your loss- I know there are no words that can make it hurt less, but how comforting it is to know that our Father in Heaven does watch over each one of us and he most surely is watching over and caring for you and your little one at this time. As much as you want him here on Earth with you, he is definitely in the best place possible and he is watching and waiting for the day when he will see you again. We will most definitely keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
Nate and Rachel you are a great example to us. We are grateful to know you and to be your friends. Were sorry for your loss but at the same time we are grateful to know that we have the understanding of eternity. We love you both very much and thank you for sharing that talk from Elder Scott. Love The Cleaver's
hey guys. our hearts are aching for you and our prayers are with you. you are such examples to us and have been since we first met you. we love you guys and maybe we'll see you in the near future. please let us know if you need anything at all.
mellissa and curtis
You are extremely beautiful people whom I have learned a lot from. I know there isn't anything we can say that will make this ok but you are truly an amazing example of strength and faith. Thank you for sharing that article. When your ready give us a call, we'd love to have you over again. We love you guys!
You are in our thoughts and prayers at this time. We are amazed at your strength and appreciate your strong testimonies of eternal families. We love you guys. Hang in there.
Nathan and Rachael,
We just heard the news about your loss. Our hearts go out to you at this time. Thank goodness for our Heavenly Father's plan of salvation and that you will be with your little son again one day. Know that we send our love and that our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. The Larkin Family
My dear Rachael, you and your sweet husband have been in my mind since JoAnn told me the sad news. We have been praying for you. We are really sorry for your loss. Have Faith, have Hope, and hold to the truthsof the gospel (something my dear JoAnn told me)
Giuseppe Samuel, what a beautiful name! Steven has the same middle name: Samuel.
I'm still working on a letter to your normal mail. I love you!
what a wonderful talk, thank you for sharing it. I don't think I can say it any better than Heather- we love you and cherish your friendship.
I can't imagine waht you are going through but know through experiences of family and friends that you are not being left alone. How grateful I am for the gospel and the priesthood and pray that the Holy Ghost will continue to support and sustain you. Because we are new grandparents, my heart also breaks for your parents. All our love and prayers.
Allan and Karen Barros.
I'm so sorry for your loss. Thanks for your example of faith and love. Our prayers and hearts are with all three of you.
We are so sorry for your loss. You are in our prayers. Your strong spirits are great examples to us.
What a strong and wonderful couple you are! We'll pray for your little family to have comfort in the difficult times. We love you guys!
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